Seeing gaps and choosing struggles of fatherhood

David Willans
3 min readJan 16, 2021

I don’t know about you, but for me, everything feels so bloody hard at the moment.

Lockdown, governmental madness (unless you’re in NZ, lucky you), WFH, shorter days, longer nights and no end in sight.

But, but, but, but. BUT.

Like my old rugby coach used to say, if you look at the opposition in front of you, you’re not going to hit the gap, you’re going to get tackled. If you look for the gap, there’s much more chance you’ll get through it.